A personal sense of beauty has many aspects. Discovering and embracing your aesthetic can be rewarding in a world of trends and ever-changing styles. Your aesthetic goes beyond fashion- it’s an expression of who you are and how you want to live your life.

(Above) Parsley and Sage Arthena Pleated Button-Front Dress 

Your personal aesthetic is a reflection of your taste, preferences, and personality. It encompasses your choice of fashion, home decor, art, and even life philosophy. Understanding what resonates with you is the first step in this exploration.

My aesthetic is eclectic. I love a wide range of styles, from vintage feminine to simply chic and classic. Even grooming and self-care can be part of an aesthetic. Today, there are so many great choices and sources to find your best declaration of you.

Whether bohemian, maximalist, or modern, immerse yourself in each style. Pay attention to colors, patterns, and themes that draw you in. My friend Shushka is a caregiver who loves all things Mexican, especially references to Frida Kahlo. She gravitates toward bright colors and lush green plant life (her favorite flowers are birds of paradise). She wears her bright red hair short and has a very strong physique at 67 years old. Shushka is a courageous lady with a bold aesthetic!

Start with some self-reflection. What are your favorite places? One of the best techniques to develop an aesthetic is to get artistic inspiration from around the world. Browse a museum or Pinterest board to see which styles or time periods you adore. It could be ancient statues from the Greek Isles or textiles from Moroccan bazaars.

Thailand’s clothing and minimalist decor inspire many people. My friend Susan, a healer, attends yoga retreats and workshops often, which has helped her lifestyle and aesthetic become more defined. Her wardrobe and interior design reflect the calming energy she embodies. A zen, unhurried attitude and easy-flowing, unstructured linens in neutral colors give calming vibes. Kaktus’ laidback loungewear evokes this carefree feeling.

Identify key statement pieces you love, then think about matching wardrobe staples and decor items that bring you joy (remember: an aesthetic isn’t just about clothing). Make a mood board and experiment. Once you identify what appeals to you, don’t be afraid to add pieces you normally wouldn’t buy.

Your aesthetic can evolve and adapt to different stages of your life. Stay open to change, whether it’s embracing new colors, patterns, or functional needs that come with time. For instance, I have a busy lifestyle and move around a lot, so my feet are just happier in flat shoes. I loved wearing heels for many decades, but now I go with what feels most comfortable.

I want things in my life that are low maintenance. Practicality is key. I am around many little kids now, and I need versatile clothing. The IBKUL Monochromatic Sally Leaf UPF50+ Sun Shirt is a great option for me while running errands or at the water park. Another favorite for boating or babysitting is the Sealife Dots Cooling UPF50+ Mock Neck Top by Anthony’s Resort Wear. Both of these tops work for a variety of outfits, and I make small changes to each look to keep it fresh.

Fewer, well-chosen items can create a more cohesive and inviting living space. Try donating or trading out a few decor pieces, and do the same with the clothes in your closet. Declutter to open up space so you can see what your wardrobe is missing with fresh eyes. You don’t need drastic changes; sometimes, changing an accent wall or a color palette in your clothing can get you started. Lighting, candles, textiles, and plants can all be shortcuts to creating a beautiful ambiance.

Harmonize the space you inhabit and the outfits you wear, and you can positively impact others by showing your style across different parts of your life. Enjoy discovering what you love, and have fun on your aesthetic quest!